Because your marriage
is worth saving

How's Your Marriage?

Many couples think their marriage is just fine, until one day they wake up and they're in the fight of their lives trying to save it!

Take the "Marriage Test" below and see what condition your marriage is in.

If your score is 90% or higher you have a good marriage. We encourage you to keep it going strong.

If your score is between 70% and 90% you have an average marriage and we recommend that you contact us to help you get your marriage from average to thriving.

If your score is between 60% and 70% your marriage may be heading for a crisis. Do not allow that to happen. Contact The Marriage Institute for ways to improve your marriage.

If your score is 60% or below you are either in a crisis mode or heading there. Contact The Marriage Institute before matters become worse.

Please make sure you have selected an answer for all questions.

My spouse and I learn from each other.
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My spouse and I try new activities and adventures together.
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My spouse encourages advancement and my personal growth and developement.
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I encourage and advance my spouse in their personal growth and development.
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My spouse and I enjoy exciting life experiences together.
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My spouse and I are in agreement on children, family and friends.
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My spouse and I are in agreement on our finances.
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My spouse and I equally share in the family, parenting and household responsibilities.
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My spouse and I are in agreement and support each others work, family and overall life balance.
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My spouse and I value each others goals, values and priorities.
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When good things happen to my spouse I'm proud of them and celebrate with them.
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When good things happen to me my spouse is proud of me and celebrates with me.
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I am supportive when something bad happens to my spouse.
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My spouse supports me when bad things happen to me.
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My spouse and I support and are aware of each others needs.
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My spouse and I can focus on a certain conflict and not bring up other issues that escalate our disagreement.
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When my spouse brings up a problem or issue they have my full attention.
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When I raise up an issue in our relationship, my spouse fully engages and I get their full attention.
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When conflict arises, my spouse and I can compromise.
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My spouse and I can deal and overcome stresses and differences.
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My spouse will listen and hear what I have to say.
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I listen and hear what my spouse has to say.
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My spouse understands and respects my feelings.
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I understand and respect my spouses feelings.
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My spouse and I are responsive to each others needs.
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We are very attracted to each other and we respond emotionally and physically when we see each other.
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My spouse and I hug, kiss and cuddle often.
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My spouse and I respond and connect when we touch.
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My spouse and I have a good sex life.
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My spouse and I have sex often.
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My spouse and I enjoy getting together with other people.
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My spouse and I enjoy our alone time together.
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My spouse and I feel connected at all times.
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My spouse and I enjoy sharing day to day experiences together.
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My spouse and I enjoy our leisure time together.
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I think about and discuss with my spouse before making any big decisions.
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My spouse would think and discuss with me before making any big decisions.
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I don't keep secrets from my spouse.
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My spouse doesn't keep secrets from me.
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There is a sense of trust in my marriage.
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My spouse makes me feel that I'm loved.
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I make my spouse feel that they are loved
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I make my spouse feel that they are respected.
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My spouse makes me feel respected.
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My spouse makes me feel secure.
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I make my spouse feel secure.
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